According to some, see-through underwear is for women who are not sufficiently confident of their own bodes to go naked in the bedroom, but since see-through underwear is, well see-through, this is difficult to believe. Why would a woman who is unhappy about being naked be happy to wear a wisp of chiffon her naked body can be seen through?According to others, the reason for see-through underwear is that it is deeply sexy. Women in wisps of clothing are sexier than women without. There is, of course some truth in the fact that some mystery is far sexier than none, but again see-through clothing doesn't provide much mystery, other than the question why it is that men buy it and women leave it in their underwear drawers. I'm exaggerating here, but in general woman are OK with lingerie which gives a hint of the body beneath, or with transparent skirts in nightgowns with matching panties. Nightgowns with see-through cups typically only appeal to men.
The key to sex-appeal in the bedroom is to realise that it's not just a one way thing. It's not just about a woman having to look visually pleasing to a man, it's actually a lot more complicated, largely because with men it's about what they see, but with women it's about how they feel. Most women are very insecure about their bodies, often for no good reason, but the result is that they feel far better when covered, and they like to be covered in something which allows them to fantasize, just a little. So when it comes to sex appeal in the bedroom, forget how it looks and think about how it will feel. Usually transparency is not the way to go.
Most modern lingerie is mass produced in the Far East from Nylon and polyester chiffon Some of this is lovely, but many of the fabrics now in use for cheaper, see-through lingerie are just downright unpleasant, with a rough texture and hard seams. Silk and satin, like skin, have a sensual quality which is completely absent in cheap nylon. Women prefer something to fit and flatter, to feel wonderful against their skin and show off their best features. Breasts are at their best when partially revealed. You can't partially reveal something if it's covering is transparent.
Is this an old fashioned view? Who says sex-appeal is only for the young? The media keep saying the population is aging, but the truth is that woman at 40, 50 and 60 are still interested in sex-appeal in their bedroom, but much less likely to dress in something they feel uncomfortable in to do it.
The best see through styles for sex appeal in the bedroom are those that show only a hint of what is beneath, those that suggest, not those that reveal, those that fit flatter and feel fantastic Ultimately it may not be what you wear that matters, but how you take it off.
It might seem like a funny idea to think of men wearing girdles, but indeed they do. Men wear girdles for the exact same reasons as women - they may have gained a little too much weight around the midsection or they want to have a slimmer and trimmer appearance for everyday, or even for a special event. Over the past couple of years, the men's underwear market has responded to increased demand for support underwear by rolling out new specialty lines. You will find several major brand names, such as Go Softwear, Equmen, and Underworks. Sometimes these products are not marketed as support or precision underwear, but be aware that they serve the same function as your traditional girdle.
The most common reason for not buying sexy lingerie from online retailers is because of privacy. Some people are too shy when it comes to ordering lingerie online and think that when the package is delivered the whole world will know its contents and you will be tainted by the perversion brush. Maybe it will cause a stir in the neighbourhood and your nattering neighbours may start talking badly about you or your postman may start looking at you strangely. They see a name on a package (e.g. Lingerie Sex, Lacy Late Night Lingerie or maybe even worse Kinky Dominatrix Lingerie Inc.) and think you are some kind of pervert. The world of the Internet may have moved on and sexual boundaries may have changed online but the world in the confines of a neighbours brain remains the same, full of gossip, jealousy and deceit. When you accept the covenant of marriage and when you accept your chosen lover for your partner, almost anything goes because in love should be trust. If you want to explore your sexual fantasies then there should be nothing tainted or tarnished by your thoughts. In the confines of most married persons' bedrooms and most dating singles too everyone is at it, even your closeted neighbour. The act of making love, having sex, getting down and dirty with one another there should be no shame or stigma attached.
Seductive. All it takes is a single word to say what you want in a bra. But you have to wear it long enough for things to sizzle, no? For that, it has to be comfortable. CK designers saw that and created the Calvin Klein Seductive Comfort bras collection. The result? You get the best of both worlds.
Despite the name, t shirt bras are not meant to be worn only with that casual item of underwear. The characteristic smooth-line design is intended to allow you to slip this on and retain the look of thin-fabric blouses and dresses of any kind.